Pacific Beach has an active recovery community, and the reliable way to find today’s AA meetings in Pacific Beach is the San Diego Central Office meeting finder at aasandiego.org. It lets you filter by day, time, neighborhood, in-person or online, open or closed, and young people’s meetings. For NA, SMART Recovery, Recovery Dharma, Refuge Recovery and Al-Anon, each fellowship runs its own finder, and all of them are linked below.
We are not publishing a meeting list here on purpose. Meetings move, change times, and close, and a blog post goes stale the week after it is written. The official finders are updated by the people who run the meetings. Use them.
Where to find AA meetings in Pacific Beach: the official finders
| Fellowship | Who it is for | Official finder |
|---|---|---|
| Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) | Anyone with a desire to stop drinking | AA San Diego Central Office meeting finder |
| Narcotics Anonymous (NA) | Anyone whose drug use has become a problem; any drug, including alcohol | NA San Diego-Imperial Counties, Find a Meeting |
| SMART Recovery | Science-based, secular mutual support; any addictive behavior | SMART Recovery meeting finder |
| Recovery Dharma | Buddhist-inspired, meditation-based peer recovery | Recovery Dharma meeting list |
| Refuge Recovery | Buddhist-oriented, non-theistic recovery program | Refuge Recovery meeting finder |
| Al-Anon Family Groups | Families and friends of people who drink | Al-Anon San Diego meeting finder |
| Nicotine Anonymous | Anyone who wants to live nicotine-free | Nicotine Anonymous |
A few notes on using them well:
- Search by neighborhood, not just “Pacific Beach.” Mission Beach, Bay Park, Clairemont and La Jolla are each a short ride away, and the AA finder lets you search near your location and sort by distance.
- Check the day you plan to go. Some meetings run once a week; a Tuesday listing tells you nothing about Thursday.
- Look for the “online” toggle. Many groups still run hybrid or online-only meetings. Our post on AA online vs. in person weighs the trade-offs.
Pacific Beach Recovery is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or a representative of AA, NA, SMART Recovery, Recovery Dharma, Refuge Recovery, Al-Anon or Nicotine Anonymous. We link to them because our residents use them.
How to read a meeting listing
Listings use shorthand that confuses people the first time. The main ones:
- Open vs. closed. An open meeting welcomes anyone, including family, friends, and people who are not sure they have a problem. A closed meeting is for people who identify as members or who have a desire to stop. If you are going to support someone, pick an open meeting.
- Speaker vs. discussion. At a speaker meeting one or more people tell their story and the room listens. At a discussion meeting the group talks around a topic, a step, or a reading. Many newcomers find speaker meetings easier for a first visit because nothing is expected of you.
- Step, Big Book, or literature study. The meeting reads and discusses a specific text. Useful once you have a few meetings behind you.
- Young people’s (YP). Meetings that skew toward people in their teens, twenties and thirties. The AA San Diego finder has a “Young People” filter.
- Men’s, women’s, LGBTQ+, Spanish-speaking. Listed as attributes on the finder. Nobody checks your ID; the label tells you who the meeting is designed for.
- Beginners. Explicitly built for first-timers, often with a shorter format and time for questions.
The same logic carries to NA, SMART, and Dharma meetings, though the vocabulary changes. SMART meetings are facilitated and tool-based rather than step-based. Recovery Dharma meetings usually include a period of meditation. Our guide to every type of recovery meeting explained goes deeper on the formats.
Your first meeting: what to expect
Many people put off a first meeting for weeks because they do not know the etiquette. There is not much of it.
- You can arrive a few minutes early and sit near the back. Nobody will ask you to speak.
- If the chair asks whether anyone is new, you can raise a hand or not. Both are fine.
- Meetings are generally free. A basket may go around for contributions to cover rent and coffee; you can pass it along.
- Most meetings run an hour. People often stay afterward to talk, and that is where phone numbers get exchanged.
- If a meeting does not fit, try a different one. Rooms have personalities. The second or third meeting is often the one that clicks.
If you live in structured sober living in Pacific Beach, housemates are usually going somewhere that night and will tell you which rooms they like. Ask.
Fitting meetings around work and outpatient schedules
A common week for someone in early recovery in Pacific Beach involves an outpatient program by day, work or school, and meetings in the gaps. A few things that tend to help:
- Use the time filters. The AA finder sorts by morning, midday, evening and night. Early-morning and lunchtime meetings exist for people whose evenings are full.
- Pick one anchor meeting. A home group is a meeting you attend every week, where people learn your name and notice when you are missing. In 12-step fellowships this is also where many people find a sponsor, someone further along who walks the steps with them.
- Keep a backup. Have one online meeting bookmarked for the night you cannot get out the door.
- Mix formats if one fellowship is not landing. Plenty of people attend AA and SMART in the same week. If the spiritual language is a barrier, our post on support groups that do not require a higher power walks through the secular options.
Thanksgiving week in Pacific Beach
Thanksgiving is Thursday, November 26, 2026. Holiday weeks are when many people most want a meeting and when schedules are most likely to shift. Some groups cancel, some add sessions, and in many areas fellowships hold extended holiday meeting marathons. We are not listing any here because we have not verified a 2026 San Diego schedule. Check the Central Office finder the week of Thanksgiving, confirm the meeting you plan to attend, and have an online meeting as a fallback.
If you are travelling to family, use the finders before you leave and pick a meeting near where you will be staying. Our post on staying sober through the holidays covers the rest of the plan.
One more date: the Great American Smokeout falls on the third Thursday of November, which is November 19, 2026. If quitting nicotine is on your list, Nicotine Anonymous runs in-person, online and phone meetings.
Beyond meetings
Meetings are one leg of the stool. Recovery communities in Pacific Beach also form around surf mornings, beach cleanups, gym sessions, and coffee after the meeting. Our fall guide to sober things to do in Pacific Beach is a good place to start building the rest of the week.
FAQ
Are there AA meetings in Pacific Beach?
Yes. Use the AA San Diego Central Office meeting finder, filter by neighborhood or distance, and check the day you plan to attend. Listings change, so confirm before you go.
What is the difference between an open and a closed AA meeting?
Open meetings welcome anyone, including family and people who are not sure they belong. Closed meetings are for people who have, or think they have, a drinking problem. The finder marks each meeting.
Are there SMART Recovery or Recovery Dharma meetings in San Diego?
Both fellowships list San Diego-area and online meetings through their own finders, linked in the table above. SMART Recovery is secular and tool-based; Recovery Dharma is meditation-based.
Do I have to go to meetings to live in sober living?
Policies vary by home. Most structured sober living homes expect residents to be active in some form of recovery support, whether 12-step, SMART, Dharma, or an outpatient program. Ask the house manager what the expectation is before you move in.
Where can I get help right now?
If someone is in immediate danger, call 911. For a mental health or substance use crisis, call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, any time.
A home base near the meetings
Part of what makes Pacific Beach work for early recovery is that the meetings, the beach, the gym and the bus are all within walking or biking distance. If you want a structured, substance-free place to live while you build your meeting schedule, reach out to check availability.
Pacific Beach Recovery is a sober living home, not a treatment provider, and is not affiliated with any recovery fellowship.


